Dealing with the difficulties of life definitely makes the life difficult.
And for a good deal of the world, life can be challenging. They try so hard and work so hard, and yet are never able to dig up happiness. Because whenever it is at last feeling good of situation or about being, SOMETHING happens; some dilemma arises or some instance ends, or some an additional changes. And all they appreciated and worked for in life is different If not merely the worse.
And no on one likes different.
Different may very well be scary. It's rarely accomplished for and so infrequently necessary. They just thought living would continue because it's; that their relationship would last "forever" with the job was guaranteed. They thought their bodies was a certain with regards to their success a given.
But that's far from the truth.
The world lives on your change. And so the greatest cause of our collective depression is not being able to cope with this go up and down. It's the inability or unwillingness to receive that things are different and then they must be so.
We struggle it. We resist thus. That resistance is recession; the idea that we can make it all better if only i this, or that i really could change it if only anyone manage that. All because we usually accept change as truth, and instead cling in accordance whatever past happiness we had, or future happiness thinks.
The Roman philosopher as well as at Emperor Marcus Aurelius once declared we must accept whatsoever comes to us, because what could we have needed more?
What he means can it be everything happens very well, and because it MANAGED happen, then it was the right thing to happen. It is useless and depressive to believe otherwise, to fight and struggle against the reality we refuse to make sure and the change we don't accept.
Acceptance is the solution to life and to all that happens to us, may happen to a target us, or will inevitably happen to us. Break ups. Illness. Age. Death. We must the endure these trials, just in case we're to endure them to begin with we must accept these. We must learn in order to survive with them and propose, because the universe techniques on, whether with every one of us or without us.
Better to go with the flow of life than into it. Better to love working out is now than to pine within the last. Better to take the disease and all challenges after which you can defeat them, rather than just resist them.
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